14 of the best weekend getaways for couples in the USA
Aspen Colorado is not all snow days; with activities like hiking and biking being popular during the other months of the year © Ken Redding /Corbis
Looking to escape the everyday grind with a picture-perfect romantic holiday?
We’ve looked all over the USA and plucked out 14 weekend getaways that cater to couples of all tastes. From mountains to beaches, cities to small towns, sprawling national parks to epic West Coast drives, here are the top romantic destinations for the best couples’ vacations in the US.
1. Big Sur, California
Best for couples who love the open road
Enjoy quality time with breathtaking views on one of the country’s most celebrated road trips. Big Sur’s wild stretch of Hwy 1 matches unparalleled vistas with hidden beaches and hiking opportunities, bubbling hot springs and excellent dining options. This scenic highway is the perfect choice for a couple looking to hit the road and reconnect with nature, without going totally rustic.
What’s more, the drive is better as a duo: if you take turns, you’ll both have a chance to look out the window and to get behind the wheel. (Just be sure to check your route before you set out, as rockslides, flooding, wildfires and auto accidents can all trigger closures.)
Start north of Big Sur at Carmel-by-the-Sea. Give yourself time to explore a village renowned for its artistic charm, from its galleries and shopping to its 18th-century mission. On your way south, stop at Point Lobos State Park to watch the sea lions cavorting on the coast, then pause near the highly Instagrammable Bixby Bridge to snap a pic or two.
2. Key Biscayne, Florida
Best for sun-seeking couples
Less than 10 miles from downtown, Key Biscayne isn’t technically part of Miami. Yet it’s close and continuous enough with the city that it could be an outer neighborhood – if it didn’t feel so darn different. From skyscrapers and scene-y clubs to quiet white-sand beaches, bike-friendly streets and water sports galore, this barrier island promises to transport you and your loved one far from the urban clamor.
Between its 19th-century lighthouse – the oldest standing structure in all of Florida – and its 1.25-mile natural beach, Bill Baggs Cape Florida State Park is a must-visit. Couples can recharge together under an umbrella, or paddle a kayak for two on the ocean waves. If you’re arriving by sea, head straight for Boater’s Grill, where you can dock at No Name Harbor and tuck into bacalao fritters and fresh-caught snapper.
The Rusty Pelican is another local institution that’s going strong after more than half a century. Reserve a table for brunch or time it to sunset to make the most of the magnificent waterfront location on Rickenbacker Marina.
3. Monadnock Region, New Hampshire
Best for small-town-loving couples
The southwest corner of New Hampshire is dotted with historic towns that exude charm – and provide a backdrop for romantic touring. Make a weekend of it by hitting the back roads and driving your way from village to village, one white-spired church and town green at a time.
Harrisville (population 953) boasts a beautifully preserved red-brick mill complex once powered by the waterfall that flows next to it; today, it’s home to knitting outfitter Harrisville Designs. After a walk around the village (it won’t take long), stop for lunch at the picture-perfect Harrisville General Store. Nearby Hancock (pop 1654) has one of the loveliest Main Streets around, lined with historic homes with huge porches and white-picket fences; the storied Hancock Inn, dating to 1789, is scheduled to reopen in 2024.
Peterborough (in these parts, a small city – of 6284 people) is the regional hub for the arts, and its small streets are filled with galleries, small museums and original shops. (It’s also a creative muse itself, supposedly serving as the inspiration for Grover’s Corners in Thornton Wilder’s Our Town.)
You won’t have to drive far to see the massif that lends its name to the area. If you’re after a bit of exertion after all that car time, Monadnock, one of the world’s most-climbed mountains, offers a moderate hike with a major payoff. Take in 360° views from its rocky, 3165-ft summit that on clear days stretch as far as Boston.
4. Williamsburg, New York City
Best for gourmet couples
Even in New York City’s standout restaurant scene, North Brooklyn boasts a particular embarrassment of riches. By basing yourself in Williamsburg, you’ll be at the center of the action.
Whether you’re after a fun date over cha siu “McRibs” and “MSG martinis” or a morning-after brunch of salted-egg-custard french toast, Cantonese-American Bonnie’s is a hot ticket. In South Williamsburg, elegant Aldama serves elevated takes on the street foods of central Mexico. Over by the BQE, Llama Inn’s dimly lit dining room sets the scene for romance over beautifully rendered Peruvian fare.
On the northern edge of the neighborhood, KRU does modern twists on Thai classics in industrial-chic, apothecary-esque environs. For a casual bite, Taqueria Ramírez slings meaty Mexico City–style tacos from a subway-tiled storefront in Greenpoint. Come prepared to queue up for your tripa, campechano, longaniza, suadero and al pastor on weekends.
5. Joshua Tree National Park, California
Best for outdoorsy couples
The two distinct desert ecosystems of Joshua Tree National Park present myriad opportunities for open-air bonding – think spring wildflowers, all sorts of animals, stunning sunsets and epic stargazing. If you prefer to stroll hand in hand, there are short walks and nature trails, with more-strenuous treks – plus biking, backpacking and rock-climbing – if you’d rather work up a sweat. (However you get out and about, pack more water than you’ll think you’ll need in this hot, dry, gorgeous place.)
You’ll find on-site campgrounds – but renting romantic accommodations nearby takes things up a notch. Barely 10 miles from the park gate, Cascade Trails Mustang Sanctuary offers five glamping tents alongside equine experiences, such as sunset trail excursions and private stargazing rides (bookable even if you’re not staying overnight).
Take a dip in the heated pool, then cozy up in a sleek Airstream trailer at AutoCamp Joshua Tree. Or, hit the mineral spa and pool at the adults-only, 420-friendly, clothing-optional Mi Kasa Hot Springs. Celebrating something special? Peruse Plum Guide’s listings for the perfectly private, modern abode.
6. Santa Fe, New Mexico
Best for couples who love mixing old and new
A city founded by the Spanish more than 400 years ago is today a center of artistic innovation. Strict planning laws mandate the use of adobe in all construction (even gas stations!), giving Santa Fe its signature earth-toned look and sense of architectural harmony and continuity. Yet riots of color and imagination lie behind those earthen walls.
In and around the historic Plaza, world-class museums showcase paintings by famous resident Georgia O’Keeffe, as well as new work by local Indigenous artists. Further afield, the Museum of International Folk Art teems with everything from brightly painted masks to carved dolls to beaded jewelry and much, much more (it’s the world’s largest such collection).
But perhaps no site exemplifies Santa Fe’s vibe of free-spirited inventiveness better than Meow Wolf. An artist collective has transformed a former bowling alley (donated by another Santa Fe creative, George RR Martin, of Game of Thrones fame) into an immersive wonderland. The attraction features trippy lights, hidden passageways and a head-scratching narrative to guide visitors through all the madness. Rather than stepping into history, here you’ll feel as if you have stepped into another dimension.
7. Aspen, Colorado
Best for high-rolling couples
Ritzy Aspen is a legendary celebrity hangout, particularly during the peak winter months. The perfect powder, jaw-dropping real estate and impeccable dining options draw a steady crowd of A-listers – and prices to match. That said, it’s not all snow days: with biking, hiking and cultural events during the other months of the year, it’s a true four-season destination. While planning a budget weekend here would be a tall order, this is a great place to go all out.
If you’re that other kind of high-rolling couple, there’s plenty for you as well. Like the rest of Colorado, Aspen has a selection of recreational and medical marijuana dispensaries. Silverpeak Dispensary is an upscale boutique that showcases its organic cannabis in custom cases surrounded by rich wood and natural light. The chic retailer offers a large selection of products from flowers and edibles to concentrates and accessories.
8. Rogers Park, Chicago
Best for culture-oriented couples
Hyde Park and Bucktown–Wicker Park are well known neighborhoods for their architectural bona fides and trendsetting, art-inspired style. But to mingle with a young crowd of diverse creatives, the Far North Side community of Rogers Park is the place to head. With 60-plus languages spoken and too many cuisines to count – from Caribbean to Mexican to Ethiopian to Japanese.
During the day, check out the Mile of Murals on Glenwood Ave and wander through the galleries and studios of the Glenwood Arts District. Stop by the Leather Archives & Museum for a peek at the history and culture of leather, kink, fetish and BDSM.
By night, catch original works at the Factory Theater, world music and magicians at Rhapsody and stories from underrepresented communities – expressed via stage combat! – at Babes With Blades. Then grab a nightcap at the romantic Le Piano, an intimate bar and performance space anchored by – yes – a grand piano.
9. Washington, Virginia
Best for history-loving couples
About a 90-minute drive west of DC in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley, the country’s original Washington sits in the shadow of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Expect a quaint small town with world-famous accommodations.
Relais & Châteaux’s Inn at Little Washington is home to the only three-Michelin-star restaurant in the DC metro area. Since it’s beloved for its tasting menus, you just might spot members of the other Washington’s elite at the next table over. (You may also recall its unique approach to filling the dining room post-lockdown).
You won’t have to travel far to enjoy more of this charmer of a town. Sip a glass of locally made wine at Gadino Cellars or Little Washington Winery, then duck in and out of the village’s shops and galleries. Head underground to check out the biggest caverns in the eastern US. You can also paddle on the Shenandoah River, motor south to Skyline Dr and hit the rest of nearby Shenandoah National Park for adventures both on foot and two wheels.
10. San Juan, Puerto Rico
Best for LGBTIQ+ couples
One of the most welcoming destinations in Puerto Rico – and the entire Caribbean – for LGBTIQ+ travelers, San Juan is a warm-weather retreat with gay-friendly neighborhoods, accommodations, nightlife and restaurants. To keep things lively, a Queer Filmfest takes place in May, as well as an epic Pride celebration in June. And all of this is just a couple of hours by plane from most cities on the East Coast.
You and your partner can hit one of two unofficial gay beaches, then prepare for a big night out at one of the capital’s fun LGBTIQ+ bars. Catch a drag show at Kweens Klub, dance up a storm at La Placita, down cheap, strong drinks at Tía Maria’s Liquor Store or make friends at La Sombrilla Rosa.
Looking to treat yourselves to a nice meal? Order broiled lobster and booze-filled coconut drinks at the gay-owned Ostra Cosa, or head to Jose Santaella’s gay-friendly namesake for contemporary Puerto Rican fare in a beautifully-designed space.
As for accommodations, Coqui del Mar is an adults-only, gay-owned guesthouse in Ocean Park, with a clothing-optional pool and first-floor studios complete with two-person walk-in showers. You can also join group excursions to the rainforest and the island’s stunning white sand beaches. The all-vegetarian, gay-owned boutique Dreamcatcher is also in Ocean Park, while the adults-only Condado Ocean Club faces the sea in – you guessed it – Condado.
11. Asheville, North Carolina
Best for the budget-minded couple
Nestled in the mountains of North Carolina, its accessible location, scenic vistas, plentiful attractions and bohemian vibe make Asheville one of the best weekend getaways on the East Coast. Despite its popularity, the city retains its eclectic charm and budget-friendly appeal for couples in search of a romantic escape that won’t break the bank.
Enjoy quality time with your loved one and Mother Nature in Pisgah National Forest where you can spend the day trekking among hardwood forests, whitewater rivers and cascading waterfalls. Strip down for a ride on a 60ft natural waterslide at Sliding Rock or strap in for a simulated helicopter flight at the Cradle of Forestry. Just two miles from downtown, the Asheville Botanical Gardens is perfect for a quiet afternoon stroll. Admission and parking are free and visitors are welcome daily from sunrise to sunset.
Downtown Asheville is brimming with cheap or free things to do for couples from perusing farmers markets and enjoying live music, to browsing quirky museums and admiring colorful street art. Hop on the free ArtsAVL Trolley to explore local artwork from Downtown to the River Arts District. While visiting the River Arts District check out fried-to-order Hole Doughnuts and see what’s on tap at New Belgium Brewing.
Detour: Spend a day exploring the sprawling grounds of the Biltmore Estate, an historic French Renaissance château featuring lavish gardens, over 20 miles of trails and an award-winning winery.
12. Cape Cod, Massachusetts
Best for the chill, quiet couple
Distinguished by its coastal charm and natural beauty, Cape Cod is an idyllic destination for the couple seeking a tranquil escape. Here you’ll find plenty of things to do from climbing historic lighthouses and sampling fresh seafood to enjoying a leisurely stroll along wide, sandy beaches.
Journey to Provincetown at the northern tip of the hook-shaped peninsula for a serene retreat. Nearby, Cape Cod National Seashore offers 40 miles of pristine shores, salt marshes and forest trails to explore by foot, bicycle or watercraft. From May to October, you can join a whale watching excursion to catch a glimpse of majestic sea life. At the end of the day, bask in some of the most beautiful sunsets in the world along Cape Cod Bay.
From pilgrims to pirates and America’s oldest professional summer theater, Cape Cod is a haven for history-loving couples. The Pilgrim Monument and Provincetown Museum brings the area’s fascinating past to life, while visitors who make the climb to the top are rewarded with breathtaking views.
For those wondering where to propose in Cape Cod, Truro Vineyards, the Aquinnah Cliffs in Martha’s Vineyard and Nauset Light Beach all feature picturesque backdrops for popping the question.
13. Park City, Utah
Best for the snow-seeking couple
Park City is the ultimate romantic getaway for couples who love to play in the snow and snuggle up by the fireplace surrounded by stunning mountain vistas. Tucked among the Wasatch Mountains near Salt Lake City, the charming mountain town offers a unique blend of natural beauty, intriguing history, vibrant culture and year-round outdoor adventures. Although there’s lots to do around the area in any season, this snow-dusted destination truly shines in winter.
Once a silver mining town, Main Street retains its signature character with boutique shops, lively festivals and innovative bars and restaurants. Skiing, snowboarding and snow-tubing are the main attractions here with three world-class resorts to explore. Snow-sport enthusiasts can often catch a glimpse of the US Ski Team practicing at Utah Olympic Park, home of the 2002 winter events. While on site, journey through local skiing history in the Alf Engen Ski Museum.
In upscale Deer Valley, you’ll find luxurious accommodations with onsite spas, fine dining experiences and ski-in/ski-out access to the country’s number one ski resort. Take the funicular up to the terrace at the St. Regis for the champagne sabering ritual at dusk.
14. Castle Hot Springs, Arizona
Best for the all-inclusive couple
In the heart of Arizona’s Sonoran Desert, the award-winning Castle Hot Springs is a secluded oasis for couples. Located about an hour north of Phoenix, this all-inclusive resort is designed for guests to experience ultimate relaxation. With just 34 rooms, the intimate boutique property never feels over-crowded.
A stay here includes all meals and gratuities, a $25 per night beverage credit, many of the onsite activities and access to the three-tiered natural hot springs. Guests can partake in guided hikes and farm tours, explore the resort on cruiser bikes and unwind with yoga and meditation classes. Massage services, horseback riding and adventure activities like the thrilling via ferrata are available for an additional charge.
Although WiFi is accessible throughout the resort, cell service is limited, encouraging couples to connect more deeply. Dedicate a few hours to luxuriate in the hot springs together, soaking in the benefits of the mineral-rich waters. The idyllic patio of Bar 1896 is a perfect place to enjoy good conversation with your partner while sipping on specialty cocktails and mocktails.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the best place for a couples getaway in the US?
The United States is filled with romantic cities for all types of couples. The best destination for your getaway depends on your interests, location, available time and travel budget. Your ideal destination should offer activities both partners will enjoy with opportunities to converse and connect. Seek out destinations with scenic views, cozy accommodations, plenty of dining options and interesting attractions.
What should couples look for in accommodations for a romantic getaway?
Whether a quaint bed and breakfast, boutique hotel or inclusive resort, the accommodations can set the mood for a romantic vacation. Look for a place to stay with cozy settings, picturesque views or unique attractions to make your stay more memorable. Be sure to consider the level of privacy, the ambiance and the opportunity to add special surprises when selecting accommodations.
What are good activities for couples on a romantic trip?
The best activities for couples bring the pair closer together whether through deep conversation or experiencing something new. Vacation ideas for couples should appeal to both partners and encourage intimacy and connection. Dinner for two, a spa day or couples massage and sunsets on the beach are classics. Active couples might prefer cycling a scenic trail or hiking to a mountain vista. Cooking or mixology classes, wine tastings, art galleries and museums encourage bonding and spark conversation. No matter what you decide to do, leave time in your travels for relaxation and spontaneity.
What is the best place for a couples trip on a budget?
If luxury vacations are not in the budget, couples can still enjoy memorable experiences with affordable romantic getaways in the USA. Budget destinations for couples can be found all across the country from Sedona to the Midwest, Savannah to Asheville and even romantic trips to Florida.
Traveling during the off-season, cooking your own meals and seeking out free things to do can open up room in the budget for must-see attractions or special experiences.
Where are the best places for adventurous couples to visit?
While the West is known for its rugged destinations and outdoor recreation, adrenaline-seeking couples can enjoy adventurous romantic trips all over the country. Surfers dream of catching waves in Hawaii, while cyclists adore Moab, Utah. Fayetteville, WV is a prime destination for base jumping and whitewater rafting. No matter what type of heart-pumping activities you’re looking for, America’s National Parks provide opportunities for adventure across the United States.
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